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Do You Have A Fear Of Success?

By Amira Alvarez We hear a lot of talk about the fear of failure. In fact, it’s a big reason many people never get moving around their business goals, or take the steps to quantum leap their income. But what about fear of success? Fear of getting exactly what we desire? Fear of…
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We hear a lot of talk about the fear of failure. In fact, it’s a big reason many people never get moving around their business goals, or take the steps to quantum leap their income.

But what about fear of success?

Fear of getting exactly what we desire?

Fear of “making it big” and having an impact?

Fear of creating the high level of income we want?

Fear of success is a tricky one, because it doesn’t show up as directly as fear of failure. Most people who have a fear of succeeding don’t actually know that’s the driving factor.

It shows up as distraction, procrastination, avoidance. It feels like overwhelm and the belief that we can’t handle what comes along with the success we claim we want… we worry that “we’ll drop the ball, it will be too much work, it will cause more problems,” etc.

It also manifests in physical ways, such as exhaustion and fatigue… (ask me how I know!!)

It’s subconscious and there are MANY subtle ways this shows up. 

There’s also a specific way to figure out if YOU have a fear of success.

You have to start by looking at where you STOP yourself. 

When you start thinking about your big, juicy goal, what happens? 

Do you get tired? Do you feel overwhelmed? Are you resistant to taking the actions you need to take, getting lost in the laundry or other things that aren’t ‘move the needle’ steps?

Or does it show up as procrastination, always doing research and getting ready to get ready?

You have to start by getting HONEST with yourself about your results, and taking a closer look at all the subtle ways you stop yourself from moving forward towards what you want.

When you dig into this, what shows up for you, NAME?

How are you stopping yourself?

And are you ready to get over your fear of success? Really, truly?

If so, email us and let me know what you uncovered and what you’re committing to changing about how you show up. I would love to know and help hold you accountable. :-)

Amira

 

What Does Freedom Mean To You?

By Amira Alvarez Freedom is a HUGE aspect of The Unstoppable Woman movement, because far too many women don’t feel truly free in their lives and businesses. Today I want you to think about what true freedom means to YOU. Is it freedom of time… the ability to do what you want, when…
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Freedom is a HUGE aspect of The Unstoppable Woman movement, because far too many women don’t feel truly free in their lives and businesses.

Today I want you to think about what true freedom means to YOU.

Is it freedom of time… the ability to do what you want, when you want?

Is it financial freedom… always buying or investing in what you want and need, without having to worry about the cost and whether or not you can afford it?

Is it freedom of expression… not hiding and saying what you mean?

Is it freedom of creation…  creating what you envision in your life, relationships, health, and business, without feeling confined or restricted by someone or something else?

Is it freedom in your relationships… feeling loved and supported for who you truly are?

Is it freedom from your subconscious programming… no longer being run by outdated fears, double binds, and limiting beliefs that keep you from going for more?

What would it look like to be TRULY FREE in your life and business?

Take a moment to write that vision out in as much detail as possible. 

Go ahead, I’ll wait… ;-)

Once you have a vision of what it would look like, ask yourself this: how much money do you need in order for that to become possible?

Have you thought about it?

This is important because in order to be truly free, you must be financially free. When you think about it, everything in your life has a financial component.

When you’re financially free you’re not beholden to anyone when it comes to the choices you’re making on how you live your life… you’re not constrained in how you show up, what you say, what you do, who you think you need to be to make sure you’re financially secure in the world. 

If you’re not clear on how much you need to make… what a true income breakthrough looks like for you to experience true freedom in your life and business… you will struggle to create it.

You have to CLAIM that money goal first, then create a strategic plan to make it happen. The claiming comes first! Start with that.

Amira

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What Are You Tolerating?

By Amira Alvarez Tolerations are one way that we continually sabotage our growth and success. Because tolerations keep us small. They keep us in old ways of being, or in relationships and obligations that don’t truly serve us in calling in what we desire. Nothing needs to be tolerated… yet, I’m sure you’ll…
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Tolerations are one way that we continually sabotage our growth and success.

Because tolerations keep us small. They keep us in old ways of being, or in relationships and obligations that don’t truly serve us in calling in what we desire.

Nothing needs to be tolerated… yet, I’m sure you’ll find that when you get really honest, you’re actually tolerating a lot.

Are you tolerating…

  • Non-ideal or drama loving clients or team.
  • Not making enough money or not charging enough.
  • Not doing what you really want to do.
  • Not taking action and therefore not growing.
  • Not having the right support you need.
  • Not taking the vacations you want to take.
  • Not enough down time or time for what you love.

 

Or maybe, for you, it looks like tolerating…

  • Toxic people.
  • Confusion or indecision about what to do next.
  • Paralysis, perfectionism, or procrastination.
  • Invisibility, not putting yourself out there.
  • Anxiety, worry, and doubt.
  • Writer's block.
  • Overwhelm and burnout.

 

And in your life, it might look like tolerating…

  • Unsupportive partners or family members.
  • An unsatisfying sex life or hating how your body looks.
  • An uninspiring or ugly home environment.
  • Clothing that's just meh or bad hair days.

 

And the list goes on and on. You get the idea. Toleration.

Is that really okay? I’m sure you believe you can make the argument that it is… but I'm arguing that it's NOT. It’s not okay because it’s time to step into MORE.

It’s time to claim what you want and really go for it.

Choose ONE thing that your are NO LONGER going to tolerate. Today.

Choose one thing. Do it now. Your life will forever be changed.

What's it going to be?

Amira

 

The Polarity Of Desire And Expectation

By Amira Alvarez There’s an aspect to my Manifestation Process that you may not have heard me talk a lot about…  it’s how you work the two poles of desire and expectation. Claiming your desire is absolutely the first step of the process, but even if you’re taking action in alignment with calling…
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There’s an aspect to my Manifestation Process that you may not have heard me talk a lot about…  it’s how you work the two poles of desire and expectation.

Claiming your desire is absolutely the first step of the process, but even if you’re taking action in alignment with calling that desire in, it may not happen if you’re not doing the work to get leverage over your subconscious programming and if you’re not truly EXPECTING it to happen.

What is expectation exactly?

It means you’re in the continuous expectation of the fulfillment of what you desire. You think about your desire… you fantasize, imagine, and play the movie of it happening… you feel it happening… you expect it to happen.

There’s no doubt… no wavering in your faith of it coming to fruition… no leaning on “plan B” or other backups in case it doesn’t happen. You act as though it will happen, because you expect it to happen.

There are a lot of different reasons why we can’t step fully into that expectation… all those reasons though have one thing in common… they create a double bind.

When you’re in a double bind you’re not giving a clear directive to Spirit and this causes you to get inconsistent or nonexistent results.

Sending a double-bind message is such a common way people derail the manifestation of their good.

But the good news is… if you master this? You’ll be able to master creating whatever you want with ease.

Want to learn more? Excellent!

This is part of learning to Be UNSTOPPABLE. But there is so much more to it as well!

Amira

You Are Always First Cause

By Amira Alvarez You are always first cause in the physical realm. That’s the Law of Cause and Effect. Every action you take, the words you speak, the way you’re showing up, how you’re BEING in your life, relationships, and business… all of that creates a ripple effect, putting other things into motion…
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You are always first cause in the physical realm.

That’s the Law of Cause and Effect. Every action you take, the words you speak, the way you’re showing up, how you’re BEING in your life, relationships, and business… all of that creates a ripple effect, putting other things into motion in a very specific way.

If your business feels hard and overwhelming… you are at cause for that.

This isn’t about blame or shame or making yourself wrong. It’s not about feeling crappy. It’s about taking 100% personal responsibility for the results you’re creating (or not creating).

That’s it.

You have to look at the choices you’re making… the experiences you’re tolerating… the thoughts you’re thinking… where you’re stopping short.

Because that’s one way we self sabotage… we stop. We give up and decide that things are too hard or overwhelming and we should try something else.

Frustration and overwhelm are not signs to stop.

They’re opportunities.

Something you’ll hear me say a lot, especially if you’re a member of The Posse is, “there’s ALWAYS tension in the growth.”

Growth requires stretching yourself beyond the point you’ve always operated from… moving outside your level of comfort… it requires stepping into spaces and ways of being that are completely unfamiliar and new.

Of course there’s tension, frustration, and overwhelm… even chaos.

When you OWN that you’re first cause—when you see these things as opportunities rather than spinning out or giving up—then you’re able to make changes.

You’re able to grow.

Frustration, tension, overwhelm show us where we need to make changes. Where we need to hire team… improve systems… rework our packaging. They show us where we need to move beyond our fears, limiting beliefs, and stories so we can do more, have more, earn more.

When you take 100% personal responsibility for your experience in your business, you step into the position of being a powerful creator.

Tell me… do you know what the frustration and overwhelm are showing you? Are you aware of what cause you’re putting into effect? Do you know what needs to change so you can experience more ease as you grow?

Take some time today to notice where you’re feeling frustration and overwhelm… where you want to just stop or give up… and trace those feelings to the root.

OWN that experience fully and CREATE a different outcome.

It’s always a choice… and it’s always within your power.

Amira

Learn this and you’ll Quantum Leap your income

By Amira Alvarez If you're ready to make more money right now, here's one of the keys... You've got to make decisions. Quickly. I didn't always do this. I used to ponder. Ruminate. Feel into it. The feeling into it was NOT accessing my direct knowing.  It was really just feeling the confusion…
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If you're ready to make more money right now, here's one of the keys…

You've got to make decisions. Quickly.

I didn't always do this. I used to ponder. Ruminate. Feel into it.

The feeling into it was NOT accessing my direct knowing.  It was really just feeling the confusion more profoundly, spinning out, and wallowing in the hard.

There were days and weeks spent like this which meant that there was a lot of time wasted and a lot of time spent making my business hard.

Listen, every day there are decisions that you need to make in your business so you've got to get good at this.

Some examples…

  • Do I call this person or do I not?
  • Do I raise my prices or do I not?
  • Do I invest in this technology, education, coaching or do I not?
  • Do I hire or do I not?
  • Do I freak out about xyz or do I not?

The list goes on and on. That's running your own business for you.

You either make these decisions quickly or you don't. Quickly doesn't mean without thought or without plugging into your core direct knowing.

It simply means quickly.

You've got to get good at this and I urge you to start now.

Why?

Because your ability to make decisions quickly is one of the biggest factors to quantum leaping your income.

Fence-sitting wastes your precious energy and time.

If you are you stuck in a cycle of research and rumination, that's going to delay your breakthrough. Pay attention to that.

Paralysis by analysis is real. And it happens all the time, often in the most innocuous ways.

What I see happening for a lot of women in business is stalling out in the decision-making process. There's “decision fatigue” and “decision paralysis.”

Sometimes this is because you haven't done this (whatever you're doing in your business right now that requires a decision) before and you need guidance, expertise, and help.

That's legit. The quickest path to resolving this is to find a mentor. Find someone who's walked that path before and can help you make a quick decision. This is what I do for my Bootcampers every single day and it's why they make such fast progress.

Other times it's because of subconscious beliefs that say it's not safe to make money, it's not safe to really shine and go for it so let's confuse the matter and make this decision hard.

This is a clever smoke screen that your subconscious throws up to keep you from not growing and risking anything. You've got to take back conscious control… and you do that by making choices.

In both of these cases, you will be held back and slowed down if you don't learn to make decisions quickly. This is a boundary issue.

If you want to make it easier and faster to make money, you've got to learn how to make it safe to decide and start making decisions quickly.

Amira

PS – If you're ready to become proficient at making quick decisions and want to quantum leap your income, check out the Business Acceleration Bootcamp. This is a program you can start right now. Book your consult and you'll be on your way.